If you happen to observe me on Instagram, you’ll have seen me being dramatic and embarrassing my household title over Nigerian net sequence – That is it just a few weeks again. I can clarify the drama, I promise.
However first, let me backtrack into how I offered my soul and acquired sucked into the e-life of younger and clueless newlyweds – Tomide and Dede Wanda.
I had been seeing tweets and bits of this net sequence “that is it” flying round my timeline however dismissed it as simply one other hyped sequence as a result of you understand we Nigerians prefer to hype issues. However I made a decision to provide that is it a attempt one night and by no means regarded again. I used to be drawn in by how actual they have been and the way deeply they liked one another. It was so evident to see!
That is it ended just a few weeks in the past and I used to be past myself with happy-sad tears. Joyful due to course, the ending was so candy and mushy. Unhappy as a result of my favourite e-couple have been leaving my display perpetually *sobs*. I introduced between all of the feelings going by way of my chest that I used to be going to put in writing about a few of the classes I realized from the net sequence however later determined in opposition to it as a result of I’m positive you guys wouldn’t fancy studying a publish punctuated by phrases like “gosh and tears” at each interval.
So when my pal and colleague, Dr. Funmi Akinde additionally tweeted one thing comparable, I took a swift dive into her DMs to ask that she shares her classes with us on my weblog as an alternative and he or she obliged!
Over To Funmi..
I stumbled throughout the web-series ‘That is it’ a few weeks again and binge-watched the primary season and many of the second season. I actually had watched it out of sheer boredom and was not trying to study any classes.
This sequence really turned out to be greater than only a net sequence, it legit changed into prayer session. I actually would begin talking Tomide’s traits into my future husband with every episode. A extremely critical one thing.
Anyhow, this publish isn’t to gosh over them however to share just a few classes I realized about marriage from watching this sequence.
Take a look at these 10 key classes on Love and Marriage from Nigerian net sequence – This-is it! Click on To Tweet
- Irrespective of how lengthy you dated your companion, marriage is an entire completely different ballgame. Having to dwell with and continually share your area with somebody exposes you to a brand new aspect of them; be able to study and alter to this aspect. (The whole season 1. Lol.)
- A person who loves you wouldn’t have you ever questioning or guessing. My sister, you’ll know!!! It might be apparent and palpable. Plain as day. (Each damned episode)
- Marry your pal. It makes every little thing simpler. (Each episode once more)
- We have to study to be delicate to the issues your companion says and even the issues they don’t seem to be ‘saying’ however ‘exhibiting’. (S1 Ep 6)
- Marry a praying companion. Life is just too irritating to be the one one lifting your house up in prayer and intercession. (S2 Ep 2)
- 6. Nothing is just too small or little to inform your companion about. Particularly in terms of your desires and ambitions. In different phrases, communication actually is every little thing in a relationship. (S2 Ep 1)
- 7. By no means ignore the best way a person treats his household particularly his mom. (S1 Ep 6, ep 9)
- 8. Males can be males with their egos. That he doesn’t let you know doesn’t imply he’s not battling one or two issues. Ask however don’t nag. (S1 ep9)
- 9. It’s okay to compromise in a relationship. Not saying hand over your desires to your companion, but it surely’s alright to allow them to be the solar when you’re a star. (S1 Ep 9,10)
- 10. Your married pal just isn’t intentionally avoiding or ignoring you since you’re nonetheless single. You simply should respect the primary that his/her companion takes precedence now. (S1ep1
Facet observe: I can’t be the one one who cried when the sequence ended.
Facet aspect observe: Running a blog and content material creating just isn’t beans! Shout out Cassie, you’re doing effectively.
